In Part 2 of Shannon’s conversation with Racheal Rye, the focus shifts from grief itself to the places grief inhabits. Together they explore the complicated relationship between memory and home, and how profound loss can forever change the spaces that once felt safe, familiar, and deeply comforting.
After losing three children — Christian, Hannah and Ben — Racheal found herself navigating not only the emotional reality of grief, but the physical landscapes it settled into. Homes, rooms, objects, routines, seasons and places that once held ordinary memories suddenly carried new meaning. Some became sources of comfort. Others became almost impossible to face. Through her reflections, Racheal shares what it means to continue living within spaces that hold both immense love and unimaginable loss.
This conversation explores the nature of belonging, the way memory becomes embedded in place, and how our relationship with home changes when life changes irrevocably. Racheal speaks openly about the tension between holding on and moving forward, the role familiarity played in her survival, and the challenge of rebuilding a sense of self when the world no longer looks the way it once did.
Gentle, thoughtful and deeply human, this episode invites listeners to consider what home really means. Is it a place, a person, a feeling, or something we spend our lives searching for? And when loss reshapes everything we thought we knew, how do we find our way back to ourselves?
Some stories stay with us long after the conversation ends.
If this episode has stirred memories, emotions or grief of your own, we encourage you to be gentle with yourself in the days ahead. Reach out to someone you trust, spend time with people who help you feel supported, and remember that you do not have to navigate difficult seasons alone.
The following organisations provide support, information and resources for people experiencing grief, bereavement, loss and emotional distress.
Lifeline Australia provides free, confidential crisis support for anyone experiencing emotional distress, struggling to cope, or needing someone to talk to.
You can contact Lifeline anytime:
Phone: 13 11 14
Text: 0477 13 11 14 (6pm – midnight AEST)
NALAG provides grief support, education and bereavement programs for individuals, families and communities experiencing loss. Their services include support groups, workshops, training and resources designed to help people navigate grief and life after loss.
Phone: (02) 6882 9222
Email: nalag@nalag.org.au
NALAG offers support for a wide range of experiences including bereavement, suicide loss, traumatic loss, relationship breakdown, illness and other significant life changes.
Griefline is a national not-for-profit organisation providing free, compassionate and confidential support for people experiencing grief, loss and loneliness. Whether you are grieving the death of a loved one, navigating a significant life change, or supporting someone through loss, Griefline offers a safe space to be heard without judgement.
Support is available through their national telephone helpline, online forums, support groups and a range of grief and bereavement resources.
National Grief Helpline: 1300 845 745
Hours: Monday–Friday 9am–6pm | Weekends 12pm–6pm (AEST/AEDT)
Online Forums & Resources: Available 24/7
Griefline provides support for adults across Australia experiencing any form of grief or loss.
Red Nose Grief and Loss and SANDS Australia have joined together to provide specialised support for individuals and families affected by miscarriage, stillbirth, newborn death, sudden and unexpected infant death, and the death of a child at any age.
Their services include bereavement counselling, peer support, support groups, online resources and information designed to help families navigate grief and life after loss. Support is available regardless of how recent the loss was, recognising that grief has no timeline.
24-Hour Support Line: 1300 308 307
Email: support@rednose.com.au
Support is available for parents, siblings, grandparents, extended family members and anyone impacted by the death of a baby or child.